Testimonials - I help families when No one else can
KYLA & SHANE
When Pei-I first worked with me and my son, we had lots of school refusals, almost daily arguments and a lot of anger in our house. During our sessions, she was able to help me realise we had a complete imbalance of who was really in control and how to put better boundaries in place. She has given me lots of strategies on how to deal with his behaviour and also reminded me not to lose my own identity. My son now goes to school and life is much calmer and I’m teaching him how to regulate, through my own behaviour. All of this was done in a friendly, non-judgmental way and I can’t thank Pei-I enough for all her insight, support and enthusiasm for us to succeed and be a happier family.
I just wanted to thank you so very much for all your help for our family. My family is in a much better place now than when we first spoke. I’ve got strategies in place and will work hard to avoid too many relapses! It’s been a real pleasure to work with you –you’ve helped so much and I will do my best to continue the good practice and advice you’ve given to both of us.
Mum, England Jan 2023
Years of stress with supporting businesses while running the home and family, left me burnt out BEFORE the pandemic. Unable to support teenagers through the pandemic left me at the end of my tether, not knowing what to do, who to listen to or even, after following the wrong paths, who to turn to. I often felt like I should know what I wanted to do but could no longer trust my own judgement.
In just 5 weeks, I have a reasonably healthy relationship with my younger teen because I keep focused on that. The relationship with my older teen feels like it has started a positive and real pathway to healing.
Recognising I need expert help was not a problem – finding someone like Pei-I felt like a gift, I have experienced others who claim to be parenting experts yet were almost incompetently unable to tune into the complexities of my situation, causing untold damage on so many levels. Pei-I is a rare diamond - alert, listening and compassionate which, combined with her experience, commitment and passion for families working is invaluable. Plus – she’s fun to work with!
Parents in USA Nov 2022
When we started parenting coaching with Pei-I my husband was sceptical for we have taken many parenting classes, training and self-help groups before as a couple and separately and none of them had a long lasting effect. But since my child got emotional easily and the father and son relationship was not smooth, I still wanted to give it another chance.
Pei-I helped us to identify me and my husband's different parenting styles, our root problems, strength, shared goals, and motivations, which not only helped us to understand our situation better but also gave us confidence in parenting. She helped us to develop realistic parenting goals and explicit instructions to implement parenting strategies, and the best part is that we can consult with her anytime outside our meeting via text or email if we have any questions or concerns. After a few weeks working with her, our family life is much calmer and everybody including grandparents feel the child "becomes so sweet".
Mum in England Jan 2023
I was feeling really lost due to a traumatic experience that had happened to my pre-teen. I had lost my confidence in parenting. 5 weeks on, I absolutely have a better connection with my now teenager, plus the added benefit of the whole family being calmer and more connected.
I would go as far as saying doing this course has had a positive impact on my business as I’m less stressed in general and I’m not getting interrupted or distracted as much as I was before.
Pei-I is fantastic at creating a safe space that feels completely confidential. As a family, we’ve all put that traumatic experience behind us now, put better boundaries in place, and really feel like we’re living the harmonious family life Pei-I promised!
